When a family member needs help you try and do whatever you can to help them out. Certain things you discuss with your spouse, such as a family member moving in. Last night my girlfriend got a phone call from her friend and she was upset that her father in law was going to be moving in with them. I guess her husband didn’t let his wife know that he was going to be staying with them for a while. The father in law decided to sell his house and started storing his stuff in their garage over the weekend. This is something as a couple you have to discuss with your spouse. Yes, she has the right to be upset. But what do you do? She cannot tell her father in law that he is not allowed to stay at the house. Have you ever had this happen to you and what did you do?